A Tale Of Two Sisters Part 2

This is the second part of the story of my two sisters, for the first part click here.

In the morning, following tMleen - Eastbourne 1967he worrying and bewildering events of the night before, I woke to find Mum and Dad already busy getting ready to go out. I was quickly washed, fed and dressed. We left home to catch a bus to Croydon and the Mayday Hospital.

When we arrived at the hospital, it all looked so different to the night before. In daylight things didn’t seem so scary. We began searching to find where they had hidden Mleen. After walking along many endless corridors, we finally arrived at the single room where she was lying, tucked up in bed. We whispered so as not to wake her, as she appeared to be asleep.

Just as I began to wonder why she was connected to a tube and a drip, Mum & Dad decided that it would be best if I waited outside the room. At that moment a doctor arrived to speak to them and I was led to a play area. I found a large wooden steam engine that I could climb into. I was delighted to find that it had pedals and steering. I was soon busy exploring the hospital corridors.

After wandering a little too far from the waiting area, I was told by a passing doctor to go back. As we reached the last curve in the corridor before the waiting area, I could hear Mum and Dad asking someone else if they had seen me. When I came into view they were clearly pleased to have found me. Perhaps their happiness at finding me masked the serious news that they had just been given. I remained totally unaware at that moment that anything had changed – in fact our lives were about to enter the most difficult time our family had ever known.

Mleen remained in hospital for another few days, but she returned home before the end of the week. Life returned to some sort of routine, but Mleen remained tired and pale. We made many trips to a local clinic, the doctor’s surgery and one more visit to the hospital in Croydon.

Several years later, when I could understand more, I was told what the doctors had explained to Mum and Dad. Mleen was diagnosed as having a fairly rare and fast developing form of Leukaemia. In 1967 only a small number of children with any form of leukaemia were given experimental treatment and around 90% of them did not survive more than a few weeks. Mleen was not offered any treatment apart from emergency transfusions to stabilise her condition, when first admitted to hospital.

My grandmother, visited more often, to help my Mum. My other grandmother, my father’s mother, who I could not recall meeting before, came to visit, traveling all the way from Birmingham. During her visit we all went to the seaside for the day, it was a long journey by bus and train to Eastbourne. The photo at the top of this story was taken on the beach that day. Mleen was wearing a new dress and bright red sandals. It is still a treasured photo. Although it was an exciting and fun day out, everyone seemed very tired and quiet by the time we were travelling home.

Less than a week after that lovely seaside trip, Nanny came to stay overnight, something that had never happened before. Dad set up a camp bed for me in the living room, as Nanny was going to be sleeping in my bed. It was just a couple of cushions on the floor with a sheet and blanket, I didn’t need anything more as it was the first week of August and a typically warm night.

I vaguely recall my Dad sitting with me for a little while, probably to reassure me, as I had never slept in a room on my own before. I can remember that the hall light was left on when I went to sleep and the door slightly open. It felt very strange. I didn’t complain, but I certainly didn’t understand why I was there on my own.

The next morning I woke early, probably about 6am. It was already the beginning of a bright summer day. I thought I had heard someone call me from the bedroom, but the flat seemed quiet, with just the sound of birds singing in the trees outside. After a short while I began to walk through to the hall and kitchen, when Dad came from the bedroom and gently guided me back to the living room.

We sat down and he did his best to explain that Mleen had gone away and wouldn’t be coming back. His voiced sounded strange, and he stopped speaking every so often and hugged me a lot. I don’t think I really understood what he was saying and it was some time before I really appreciated that she had died. I had not known anyone else who died.

The following few days a flurry of visitors arrived, relatives came from all over the country to pay their respects. On the day of the funeral, just before we left the flat, all the men assembled around the tiny coffin in the living room. We all walked a mile or so to the local Beckenham cemetery, where the hearse waited for us with flowers and the coffin. Afterwards there was a big gathering when everyone seemed to want to give me presents and make a fuss of me. I didn’t mind the presents, but I didn’t really want to be the centre of attention. Mleen had always been the one who took that burden from me.

In the weeks after the funeral life moved fairly fast and in September I started school. I suppose that kept me busy. Dad had his work as a carpenter, which took him away from the flat most days. Mum was on her own in the flat in those weeks and months and in recent years I have wondered how she managed. The only highlight of that dark winter that I recall, is Dad building my first snowman, recounted in an earlier story. For Mum & Dad there was an even more important highlight that winter, a new baby was on the way!

The first I knew about that was when Mum was noticeably pregnant, so probably in December, and as spring approached, preparations were made for the new arrival. One night I was moved to the temporary bed on the living room floor again, and I woke in the early morning to hear the faint chatter of voices from the bedroom.

As I went to investigate I was met by Dad and asked to stay in the living room, where he brought me a drink and a biscuit. The next thing I knew I was being dressed and taken down to the garden to play on my own for a while. A rather stern midwife insisted that she check on mother and baby, despite the night before leaving a newly qualified but inexperienced midwife, to handle the birth alone. Once the stony faced woman left I was allowed back indoors, where I was shown my new sister for the first time.

I cannot say that I recall much of that event, as I was probably thinking that she wasn’t a real sister, as she didn’t walk, talk, laugh and play! She just slept, or cried – no fun at all! I am fairly sure that a few months on my own had turned me into a selfish little brat. I am not certain I was as delighted as Mum and Dad about the new member of the family. I quite liked the choice of name, Suzannah, and this time Mum and Dad were in agreement.

It was a few years before I really began to play with this much younger child, and the almost 6 year age difference did cause a few upsets over the years, when our interests were poles apart. I did began to appreciate her once she could join in some games with me and my friends. It helped if the friends had younger sisters too!

Unfortunately, I also found a bit fun in teasing her, for which I was always scolded. As an 8 year old boy, it seemed such fun to make a jumping rubber spider leap across the bed towards my wide eyed little sister until she screamed in fright. Mum and Dad didn’t trust me with that spider after that and I never saw it again! I soon got over that foolish stage and I began to discover a role as her protector and defender from any idiots who picked on her at school. Over her first years at school I chased quite a few of those bullies all the way home, screaming for the protection of their mothers!

By the time we left London and lived in the small towns of rural Hertfordshire, I began to find a lot of fun in having a young companion to play with, even if she sometimes didn’t have as much interest in cars, trains and model planes as me! I used to enjoy the challenge of putting together the plastic poles of the Wendy House, lifting the bright yellow and red cover over the frame. Playing in the Wendy House though was strictly for girls, well most of the time anyway!

If some of you are beginning to think that something about the last paragraph sounded a little familiar, the photo below may help clarify things. If you follow suzywordmuser you may recognise the house in the background and the garden. She may be minus her Wendy House, but she most definitely isn’t lost!

S&G 40 ya

suzywordmuser and growltigger  – 40 years ago!

A Tale Of Two Sisters – Part 1

This is the story of my two younger sisters. It is a tale of joy, sadness, and a perfect world, paused, before being restarted.

My first sister, Mleen, Morcombe 1966was born about two years after me. Mleen (pronounced Meleen) was the compromise name my Mum and Dad finally agreed on, after debating about Melanie and Maureen for a week or two. For many years I thought the name unique, an invention by my Dad, but have in recent years found that there are a few others, scattered around this big wide world, in far away, exotic lands. My earliest memories are of the two of us, sat on the threadbare carpet, playing with a humming spinning top, wooden building blocks, plastic bricks and Matchbox or Dinky cars.

Our Dad, a carpenter, worked long hours on building sites in different parts of London. Our Mum worked long hours at home, doing all the things that Mum’s did in those days. Looking after two small children must have been hard enough, but there were also daily trips to the local shops, green grocer, butcher, baker and fishmonger. There were no supermarkets in our area, although the first few had began to appear elsewhere. Like many people then, we had no fridge, just a cool cupboard, to store milk, butter or meat, nothing would keep for very long.

Mum also washed all our clothes and bed sheets by hand, without even a wringer or mangle to help dry them out. It was the early 1970s before we had a basic washing machine. The highlight of the week was Mum’s baking day, when we could ‘help’ Mum, weigh the ingredients for scones and cakes. We often used our hands to scoop up anything left in the mixing bowl even though it often contained raw egg. At the time it was seen as raw goodness and we suffered no ill effects! As a background to all these activities I can recall the radio playing pop tunes, or us settling down for Listen With Mother, delighted by stories and nursery rhymes.

When evening fell, we waited expectantly for our Dad to arrive home, running excitedly to greet him, as he carried his racing bike up the stairs to our flat. He’d ask about our day, what we had done and where we had been. Mleen excelled in telling stories of our day. Even before she was three years old, she would make up stories – how she’d met a ‘snotty nosed man’ in one of the shops, which would cause Dad to laugh.

Unable to resist that encouragement, she would repeat the tale, saying when she went to the next shop, there he was again, the snotty nosed man! More laughter from Mum, Dad and me, and this would be repeated several times. The expressions of amazement on our Dad’s face became more exaggerated each time and with all the encouragement Mleen became more expressive with her disgust. Happy to be home, Dad would pick us up and carry us around on his shoulders and crawl around on all fours, with us taking turns to ride our ‘horse’.

It often descended into rolling on the floor in fits of laughter, tickling and tired contentment. Mum joined in from time to time, but more often she was cooking our tea, boiling vegetables and baking a scrummy meat pie in the oven! For dessert there was the wonderful aroma and taste of bread and butter pudding, with Birds custard, simple yet delicious!

Happy Days 1966Later in the evening Dad would relax with one of his pipes, filling it with sweet smelling aromatic tobacco, puffing away, occasionally relighting it. Every so often he would take the Dansette record player into the newly carpeted living room, that we rarely used. The room was only sparsely furnished with an old horsehair sofa and a TV that was often unreliable. Dad would soon fill the room with the melodic sounds of Chopin’s music. Drawn by the sound of tinkling piano music, Mleen would creep up to the living room door. She would peer round the door until Dad saw her and invited her to join him.

He would find a polka on the LP, placing the needle carefully on the right track and they would dance in their socks across the expanse of the golden carpet, spinning and twirling, laughing and giggling, as Dad’s and daughters do! I always watched from the doorway, happy to just observe, but sometimes I was reluctantly dragged in to the fun. Dancing wasn’t so appealing to me! These idyllic days of fun and laughter are just warm memories now, sitting side by side with the darker recollections of the events of the summer of ’67. Life took us on detour down a dark road.

In April, Mum and Dad began to notice that Mleen seemed to tire very easily, asking to sit in the pushchair, rather than walk. Wanting to rest rather than play. My Aunt and grandmother commented that Mleen looked very pale, compared to a few weeks before, suggesting a trip to the doctor. In the next few weeks there were several trips to the doctor, every time Mum was reassured that there was nothing to be concerned about, it was just “the Terrible Twos”, Mleen was just “under the weather”, “she will soon pick up”. Mum felt that the doctor was dismissing her concerns as if she was an over anxious mother.

By May, more strange symptoms appeared, several bruises, large and small, and every day she grew a little more pale, rosy cheeks of a healthy child long gone. Every day had become a struggle for her. One evening, not long after I had gone to bed, I was woken again. It seemed like the middle of the night to me, but it was more like 8-9pm. Mum and Dad quickly helped me get dressed, complaining that the doctor refused to make a home visit.

We walked down familiar streets, strange, creepy and dark, but soon reached the surgery. In later years Mum and Dad often recalled that as soon as we entered the surgery the doctor became quite flustered and immediately phoned for an ambulance. Not wanting to admit he’d refused to make a home visit, he requested the ambulance call to our home. We had to make a hasty return home.

The ambulance, a large cream coloured van, with opaque side windows, arrived outside our home just as we did. After leaving the pushchair indoors and collecting a few items for Mleen, we departed for the hospital in Croydon. I seem to recall Mum, Dad and me sat opposite Mleen, who was lying very quietly on a stretcher, covered with a blanket.

I don’t recall the rest of the events in the hospital that night, just that we had to leave Mleen there. We caught a red Routemaster bus back home, or at least to the end of our road. Once indoors, I quickly fell asleep, but I am sure that Mum and Dad had a restless night, worried about Mleen, wondering what was wrong with her and what the next day would bring.

Continued in part 2

Pinky & Perky (1960s)


Pinky & Perky were very popular with young and old alike, real family entertainment.   Jan Dalibor, a painter and sculptor, with his actress wife, Viasta, created the loveable puppets in 1957.  They recorded their own peculiar cover versions of popular songs, with their high voices and half speed backing tracks, soon becoming one of the most popular TV shows of the decade.  Part of the fun was to present themselves as a pirate TV channel PPC tv and the shows began with a sequence of them arriving at BBC TV Centre in a miniature car and entering the building through a secret underground entrance.

They released many of their cover versions of popular songs and parodies on singles and LP’s, like this one from 1961.  (Image courtesy of  wikipedia – more details in their article here.)


They even managed to follow the success of British music in America, making several appearances on The Ed Sullivan show.  In their last appearance on the show in Feb. 1964, they shared the bill with The Beatles and Morecombe & Wise (very popular British comedians of the day).  Their musical style was imitated from 1958 on, by the American parody band Alvin & The Chipmunks, who also recorded cover versions of popular songs, with similar success.

Pinky & Perky were banned briefly by the BBC in 1966, due to a planned satire of politics in the midst of a General Election.  The huge public outcry meant that they were soon back on air.  Their satire of the election ended up with more viewers than the Prime Minister, Harold Wilson and his election broadcast, which was shown on ITV at the same time!

The only real way to share memories of Pinky & Perky is with a clip of them, so if you remember them fondly you will enjoy the video below.  If you have never heard of them, well, you are in for a typically British comic treat! 😉

Thanks to Matthew Lowe on YouTube for sharing this episode.

By the end of the 1968, their popularity fading, they moved to Thames TV, part of ITV and in 1971, they finally ended their run of fame.  In 2007 an all new digitally animated version was commissioned  and from 2008 the BBC showed the 52 episodes, with many of the original characters making an appearance.  I will always prefer to remember the original series, even if it was in black & white and now seems very dated.

Main picture at the top of this article courtesy of  Television Heaven a source of much wonderful TV nostalgia.

Music of the 60s – Early Favourites


Nancy Sinatra singing These Boots…  aah, I can remember singing along when it was played on the radio.  Thanks to nyrainbow2 on YouTube for sharing this video.  For an original FULL COLOUR version click here.  Also see those or similar videos in my pages for TV and Music Videos.
Another favourite of mine at the time was Ronnie Hilton’s novelty song, A Windmill In Old Amsterdam.


Radio was the main form of entertainment in our home from as early as I can remember, around 1965.  The Light Programme of the BBC was the usual station we tuned into. By the end of 1967 it was renamed BBC Radio 2 and Radio 1 was launched to answer the challenge of pirate radio stations, like Radio Caroline and overseas alternatives like Radio Luxemburg.

This video by GarrardAT6 on Youtube shows his original copy of that song, his first record.  It is being played on an old record deck and his channel has a wonderful nostalgic collection of old record players, like Dansette, Hacker and Pye.  To visit his collection click here.
Cover pictures for singles found at  45cat.com

London in the 1960s



London in the 1960s, life was bustling, people swinging, dancing to the hip sounds of the day. Wearing iconic fashion, driving classic cars, watching Technicolor films, listening to fab pop.



At the time of course it was just normal life. Perhaps there was a new sense of freedom, and a new excitement for the future, but there were also cold war fears of nuclear annihilation, the assassination of JFK, the Vietnam War and the Biafran famine, part of another war.
For most, life was not much different to the two or three decades before. Many lived in small apartments, sharing bathrooms, exchanging the sounds of daily life. For most people, dressed in unremarkable clothes, with no car, riding buses or the Tube, life was just routine. They worked hard, for not much pay, they married, had children and tried to have a happy life.

A short film from the 1960s, with a quirky narrator, commenting on the fashions and lifestyle of the time.